Sunday, March 29, 2020

Week Three???

On the whole social distancing process.  The virus continues to spread throughout the world and the US including Utah, although I haven't heard of anyone I know personally who has a confirmed case of the virus.  And despite the long list of things that I thought I would like to get done or could get done--not much has been accomplished this past week.

We talked to our grandchildren on Facetime.  They are all young enough to not be stressed by the virus part, just the staying away from friends part of social distancing.

This past week, other than walks in the neighborhood, I only made a drive to Jessica's work to pass off the diapers and wet wipes that Gary was able to find for them at Sam's Club.  Gary has designated himself as our "hunter and gatherer."  His thoughts are that if anyone gets sick, it should be him because I am better equipped to take care of him than the other way around.

I am trying to reach out to the sisters that I minister to on a regular basis and also random other friends daily.

We have started working by Webex and after a few different difficulties seems to be working smoothly for me.  It is different doing therapy over the internet and it is not my favorite, but it works in this current setting.

I wrote the following on Facebook (where I am spending way too much time reading and commenting):   "Gov. Cuomo (governor of New York which is currently a hot spot in the nation for the virus)  gave a very reasonable and appropriate discussion of the virus crisis. "This is not a sprint; it is a marathon. " and "look for the little silver linings. They are there." "After we get through this, we will be better for it."

Amen to all of that."

Russell M. Nelson Expected To Announce New Mormon Leadership ...
President Nelson, the prophet, called for a Worldwide Day of Fasting for today for strength, courage, and help in overcoming the challenges caused by the pandemic.  I saw a variety of repostings of this request on Facebook--many by members but also by other Christian faiths.  It is a privilege to fast for such a purpose.

One small task that has been waiting around for me to do was to order photos printed of the grandkids with their grandma quilts which we had taken last summer on my birthday.  Finally ordered these from Mixtiles.  I love them except they are a bit smaller than I would have preferred  (8" by 8" each).  Very easy to hang up.  And I love them in our family room!  And although I didn't plan it intentionally--the bright colors of the quilts match my house.


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Scarlett, Niki, Liam
Zander, James, Cooper
Carter, Alex, Ava

Hopefully I will get a few more things done this week in addition to working (which takes more time due to additional outreach, etc.)

And no more news on the mission front--the official word is that calls are still being made, but things might be a better slower than in the past.  A young sister in our stake got her call on Tuesday to West Virginia, starting on July 1st.  So I guess calls are still going out.  My original hope when our papers went in at the first part of March was that our call would come before Conference.  Now we are hoping for before the end of April.

All of the other things going in the world has served as a distraction from waiting for a mission call so that's one positive thing!  I would probably be driving Gary nuts if life was more "normal."  :) 

Sunday, March 22, 2020

IT HAS BEEN A WEEK!

I don't have much profound to say about this week other than that "It has been a week."  And I have no pictures currently to document it as I left my phone at the Harrisville Church Cannery and they are not open again until Tuesday.

The week went like this:

Monday and Tuesday:  TELETHERAPY These two days were spent mostly on the computer and the phone as our office of Family Services all went remote for the next unspecified length of time "in the abundance of caution."  I ended up doing sessions on the phone as the bugs were being figured out in our teletherapy programs.  Some of my clients are going to hold off until in office appointments can resume but I will still have 20 or so clients to work with by computer.

Wednesday: 7:09 am-- EARTHQUAKE I was still in bed but had been awake for a few minutes when the Utah Magna earthquake rumbled through.  It was a 5.7 which is the biggest one that I had ever been in.  Jessica and her family lived just 3 miles south of the epicenter and felt aftershocks throughout the day and into the next day.  Over 90 at least had been counted.  So in addition to the virus news, we got earthquake news as well, especially on that day.  No damage here.  Jessica's house had some things fall down off shelves.  It led to a variety of funny memes on Facebook-- "Utah likes their corona 19- shaken not stirred." and a fun chart about the opposing directions between the virus (social isolate in your house) and earthquake (leave your house, check on neighbors).  It was nice to have texting and email to quickly check in with family and notify family away from us that we were good before they heard it on the news.  I appreciate family and friends who checked on us.

We made chocolate chip cookies and left them on the porches of some of our neighbors in honor of "Earthquake Day."---sometimes you just need warm chocolate chip cookies.

Thursday:  LARNYGITIS Gone--  This was the first day that I felt my voice was back to normal and no lingering soreness or coughing was left.  Finally!--I have already been home for over two weeks (except for a trip for my diagnostic mammogram the week before).  Of course, now we are home for another reason.

Friday:  CANNERY--  Friday afternoon, Gary and I and his sister, Vonette, and some other great people from our stake showed up at the cannery in Harrisville to serve as the cleaning crew for the week.  We all tried to maintain social distance from each other as we finished up the run of beef stew and then helped clean the cannery for the week.  I often leave the cannery with an appreciation for my college degree and options plus gratitude to the millions of people who labor physically and mentally in factories throughout the world to help feed us and provide the many material things of life that we use.  This time, my overwhelming feeling was thankfulness that the Church is continuing to work to provide food for the storehouses of the Church.  Much of the Church's business has gone remotely, but this important task is being continued for the time being so that we can help feed our brothers and sisters in the difficult times ahead. It was a honor and privilege to work there yesterday.

(Unfortunately, I left my phone on the desk when I checked out and didn't notice it until I was almost home.  As mentioned it doesn't open again until Tuesday so I have been phoneless.)

Talked to the medical desk of the mission department as she confirmed things were moving along--whatever that means.  Almost all missionaries out of country are being returned to their home countries as travel allows it to happen.  Although the official word is still that calls will be continued to be made worldwide, people needed to be prepared to be adjustable in the changing times.

I made my first venture to the real world on the way to the cannery,  stopping off at Lowes to get paint for our basement bedrooms which we are slowly working on.  Social distance was happening throughout the store, but there were other people there stocking up for home projects as well.  If you are going to be home, nice to maybe get some things done.

Saturday:  AGING--it took a few weeks until I actually thought that I was in the demographics of higher risks, being over 60 years old.  A 4-hour shift of being on my feet and checking cans and cleaning is proof that I am not as young as I used to be.  Both Gary and I were feeling it yesterday and had a very low key day, doing just what had to be done for the day.  We are definitely missing March Madness as we are college basketball fans, and especially miss watching our great BYU basketball team this year.  Oh, well, those are minor things in the scheme of life.

And now it is Sunday.  A day to rest, to reflect, to count our blessings.  We are so blessed in this tricky time to have the "long view" as well as the immediate view in mind.

And while, it is crazy to be waiting for a mission call in this changing time--there have been plenty of distractions to keep our minds off of it.

Sunday, March 15, 2020

Missionary Papers--New Worry

Now my worry is that they will stop making missionary calls at all until the virus calms down and we understand more about it.  I did hear about a friend of a friend who got a call to a senior mission in Germany for September recently--just not sure how recently that calling was.  Gary's cousin, Steve and his wife are heading home from Italy at the moment.  They are so sad to be leaving after only 8 months.  I was worried about waiting 4-6 weeks for our call, maybe we will have to wait much longer than that. Seems likely! Stay tuned!

WORLD EVENTS- Coronavirus 19

Of course, world events are always happening every day.  There are wars and rumors of wars, there are political fights and criminal activities. There are amazing achievements and discouraging failures.  In general, my blog has not shared these events, but this is a remarkable moment in recent history--and I think we are caught off guard.  I think we believed that we should be beyond the pandemics and terrible seasons of flus and other illnesses which killed millions and millions of people worldwide in the past.  Science and medicine and antibiotics protected us from that.  However, it is not true and although the death counts are not yet in the millions, people are and will probably die from the Coronavirus worldwide and maybe in our backyard.

Governments and others are scrambling to react to this new virus which seems to have started in Wuhan, China in December.  Cruise ships and travelers have been tracked spreading the illness in many parts of the world.  You can do an internet search about the history of it all.  This blog is a tribute to following a living day prophet in these trying times.

The first part of February the Church made a donation to China of needed medical and sanitation equipment. Early in March, the Church announced that they were cancelling the normal leadership meetings for the Church held in the week before April Conference.  In fact, they were telling the General Authorities not to travel to Salt Lake for the conference.  That was very surprising.  There were few travel bans at that time and it seemed like an over-reaction by the Church.  Missionaries from locations in Asia were sent home and required to stay in their homes for 14 days--then may be reassigned.  Shortly after that, the Church stopped travel from many countries for their employees.  March 11--the Church announced that April Conference will not have any audience except for direct family members and the choirs.  (March 12-14)--then in rapid succession-- the following things happened:
1.  All senior missionaries from Europe are being sent home.  Young missionaries are mostly to stay inside and contact business online--a system which has only been in place for less than two years in most missions.
2.  Missionaries preparing to go on missions are doing online MTC and then heading to the mission field.
3.  Temples in the impacted areas had been closing over the first part of the month, but it was announced that all temples would stop doing any proxy work and only be available in limited ways for living ordinances.  These will be handled by each temple.  (That is a weird feeling to not be able to go to the temple when you live close to them.)
4.  Stake Conferences were cancelled after March 16.  We were scheduled to have ours today so we thought that we would still meet.
5.  Then on Thursday of last week, the Church announced that ALL meetings worldwide would be suspended until further notice to prevent the spreading of the virus.
6.  All of the buildings of the Church in downtown Salt Lake are closed to visitors. Construction on the Salt Lake Temple will continue.

In the state and in the world, there were similar announcements of closures and changes in life.  There have been runs at the grocery stores, especially toilet paper which has been made fun of frequently on social media.  The shelves are emptied of cleaning supplies and paper goods as well as cold medications and other things to use if your family is ill.  Daily we hear the growing number of people who have tested positive for the virus.  I think it is at 21 people in Utah although most got it somewhere else.  We are famous because two members of the Utah Jazz, our professional basketball team, have tested positive for the virus.  Schools have been closed.  Universities are switching to online only and students sent home where possible.

Jena's events such as ushering and theatre and her beloved College Bridge program are all paused to prevent spreading of the illness.  Her race day for skiing was cancelled and the resort has closed for the year.  No NCAA basketball, no spring college sports....the list goes on and on.

I have to admit that it was an odd feeling to wake up on Saturday morning with NOTHING on the calendar for the weekend.  In fact, all that is on our calendar for this week is my work, a haircut for Gary and a goodbye party for Jena's college bridge program as her roommates head home.  It is not to say we don't have piles of stuff to do around our house or stuff to do on the computer--but no outside things--it is quite an interesting season to be in.

Saturday I spent a fair amount of time reaching out to neighbors, friends, and my kids to make sure they were doing okay.  Gary was able to get a box of diapers for Jessica who found herself without diapers at four stores the night before.  They are good for a couple of weeks, but she was worried about beyond that so a huge box of diapers was a relief for them.  Our order from Walmart was missing 20 items which has never happened before, mostly fresh and frozen fruits and vegetables.  We fortunately have toilet paper at home already!

The virus itself is still being studied, but it seems that it mostly is dangerous to people over 60 or with compromised immune systems.  Children especially seem to not have problems managing it.  It causes a fever, dry cough, sore muscles, and leads to a pneumonia which is what becomes life threatening. Many people who have it feel like they have the flu.  Because of the lack of testing materials worldwide, it is impossible to know exactly how deadly it is or will be over the next few months or year.  History will have a record of it.  But for now, we are just at the beginning....and how we manage is the story yet to be told.

Back to having a living prophet:  For years we have been encouraged to have a year's supply of food and other needs (recently the focus has been on having 3 months worth of necessities including money).  Two years ago, our Church organizations were switched from visiting and home teaching to ministering to each other--in a more personal and intimate way of serving.  We were encouraged to reach out by text or phone or other ways to connect with each other in addition to doing visits as indicated.  Last year, we went from 3 hour Church to 2-hour Church with the new focus on Home Centered-Church Supported Gospel learning and the introduction of the Come Follow Me program. In October of 2019, our prophet told us to becoming spiritual stronger and prepare for April Conference in specific ways because it was going to be different than other conferences (in part, to celebrate the 200 anniversary of the First Vision.)

And today, in our home and likely millions of homes of Saints across the globe, we gathered in our own homes, dressed in our Church clothes, at our kitchen table while Gary prepared and blessed the sacrament and passed it to Jena and I.  Just the three of us--in "Hall Church," Jena called it.  For us, we also listened to the prophet's recorded message from yesterday and also watched the videos about the First Vision in preparing for Conference.  Even as I began to dress in my Sunday clothes (in the afternoon, because who has 9:00 am Church if they get to pick the time), my eyes teared up at the thought of partaking of the sacrament in my own home.  I think I have done it one other time after a surgery in West Jordan, I think that the priests brought me the sacrament.  But this was different--to watch Gary kneel and bless the sacrament at our kitchen table was a moment that I will never forget.

So in the mist of the craziness outside, I am grateful for the peace in our home and in my heart.  I thank God for a prophet to guide us in these latter-days.  But most of all, I am grateful for Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ who lead our prophet and other leaders and love us so much that They have given us the preparation we need to be ready for whatever is ahead!

Laryngitis and Spring Cleaning

Starting from March 6, I have had a cold that developed into laryngitis--I never had a fever--which is very important as you will discover in a following post--but laryngitis is not helpful when you are a social worker.  Although I was beginning to feel better by the following Tuesday when I needed to go to work, my voice was not so I ended up staying home on both Tuesday and Wednesday.

Since I was feeling some better, in between binge watching "Elementary" on Hulu, I worked slowly on spring cleaning my kitchen and dejunking it as well.  The knowledge that we will be likely packing stuff up to let someone live in our house and watch the dogs is great motivation to decide what to keep and what to donate or throw away.

These wooden plates I got in the Philippines over 30 years ago.  In the photo, they still look fairly good but they had been put in the dishwasher too many times to really use them anymore, so they are gone.

This is a plate the kids gave us one Christmas--love you all, but now we only just have this photo of it!
It took me all week, but it was so nice to have it clean and done.  With the craziness of the world at this time, having my pantry organized was especially useful.

I still have a "froggy" throat and cough now and then, but feeling much better now and hope to be able to go to work on Tuesday.  We will see how things go!  Two colds in less than a month is unusual for me, but working with the public can do that.  We have been fortunate to not have any signs of the flu this year...knock on wood!

Missionary "Papers" Update

Our "papers" are at the medical section of the senior missionary department.  They are waiting to get the results from the mammogram faxed to them from our family doctor who has to get them from the radiologist.  Hopefully that will happen at the beginning of this coming week.  When I spoke to her (at the medical desk)about my results, she seemed to indicate that it would be okay for me to serve as long as what I said matched what the doctor wrote.  She said that the report needs to get to them within this coming week or they have to bounce our recommendation back to the stake president.  They are only allowed to hold them for a certain amount of time, waiting for results.  Hopefully, with the craziness that is going on in the world (more on that in a following post)--that will happen in a timely fashion.  It is out of our hands at the moment.

Moral of the story:  Do your mammogram when you do your physical.  :)

Mammograms.....

Not the most favorite topics of women the world over but a necessary process and certainly life-saving for millions!  It is always good when it is done and things are okay--but sometimes it is a bit more of a process.

Our family doctor was not certain that I would need to do the mammogram as part of the mission physical, because on the actual medical form it seemed open to the doctor's opinion.  I have not been getting mammograms every year, but more in the every 3 years or so.  We don't have a history of breast cancer in my family and it is easy to let something like that slide.  I had usually gotten them around my birthday and when I did my physical in January, my doctor was fine with that.  However, as the health form was put on the computer, someone from the stake suggested that I do it sooner so I made an appointment for March 5th.  With the date in the computer, they were able to submit our completed paperwork.  Great!

Went and did the mammogram at Ogden Clinic which was such a smooth and easy process compared to places I had gone in the past.  I was happy to have it done and over with......

until the following Tuesday when I got that phone call none of us like:  "Mrs. Hall, can you come back for a diagnostic mammogram of your left breast and an breast ultrasound."  At the time, I was home sick with a bad cold and laryngitis.  So I opted for an appointment in two days to avoid passing my cold germs around.  But being in limbo is never a good place to be with this type of thing.  However, with my recent commitment to living in the present moment more, after making the usual review on the internet for reasons for an ultrasound of the breast, I really was able to not get too crazy with options and bad outcomes.  Thursday, I headed in, had the tests, and before I left, the radiologist came in and review the results with me.  I have two small cysts--one clearly a benign type, the other very very likely to be benign-and they just want to redo the mammogram in 6 months.  I asked about serving a mission in the fall and he said, no worries, just schedule the mammogram before you leave.  So glad that I did the mammogram now so that we have six months before we need to retest and that will still be the month prior to our availability date of October 1. 

I am SO glad that we started our paperwork in January, but set the date for October 1st.  It continues to seem to be the right combination for us.

(However, it is not fun to have breast cancer ads showing up on Facebook whenever I get on.  The joys of making internet searches!)

Missionary Papers----

They have been submitted by our Stake President soon after we met on March 3rd.  Yay!

HAPPY HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO US!

Taken from my post on Facebook:

Our anniversary this year was set on a Tuesday which is normally a day that I work from 1:00-9:15 pm.  Without telling Gary, I had blocked out my time from 6:00 on so that I could surprise him for an anniversary dinner.  Gary and I are not big celebrators or gift givers on our anniversary or Valentine's Day.  Over the years, going on a trip together sometime in the year was our default celebration/gifts to each other for both of these holidays. I thought having a dinner together would be a nice surprise.  But then the stake executive secretary reached out for an appointment for our mission interviews.  6:30 Tuesday turned out to be the only time that worked for the Stake President and for us that week.  I was very glad that six weeks ago, I had blocked that time off.

How will you spend your 42 anniversary! Gary and I had our interview with our stake president (the leader of the larger area in our Church) tonight and he will be submitting our missionary "papers" to serve a senior mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We are planning to leave in the fall, we have no say where we will serve although we did make some selections about types of mission and preferences, and we should hear in about 4-6 weeks. We are lucky because last week, we got an "exception" to take Jena with us. She will be called to serve a Church Service mission in the same area after we have received our call.
Let the guessing begin--one inside the states and one international! We will keep track and there may be an ice cream coupon for the closest!
Thanks to Rebecca Jensen for our missionary pictures!  (and I posted the photos which I have already included in the blog earlier.)

Our anniversary this year was set on a Tuesday which is normally a day that I work from 1:00-9:15 pm.  Without telling Gary, I had blocked out my time from 6:00 on so that I could surprise him for an anniversary dinner.  Gary and I are not big celebrators or gift givers on our anniversary or Valentine's Day.  Over the years, going on a trip together sometime in the year was our default celebration/gifts to each other for both of these holidays. I thought having a dinner together would be a nice surprise.  But then the stake executive secretary reached out for an appointment for our mission interviews.  6:30 Tuesday turned out to be the only time that worked for the Stake President and for us that week.  I was very glad that six weeks ago, I had blocked that time off. A small thing but one of the little miracles that have been happening.............

We did go out to eat afterwards at the Texas Roadhouse since we had a gift certificate for dinner there.


Family History Continues....

Valerie and I had one more family "history" moment after I dropped Jena and Emily off at their apartment in Provo.  We had arranged to meet up with my cousin who lives in Mapleton and have dinner together.

My cousin-in-law, Raelene, snapped this photo of Valerie, our cousin-Dan Gibson, and I while we were reviewed old pictures that Dan had on his computer of all of us when we were little.  His dad, my Uncle Grant, was a photographer, and due to that, we have many photos of us as cousins lined up for photos during our summer vacations to Portland, Oregon, where our grandmother and aunts, uncles, and cousins lived.  These were usually not planned and organized pictures of us in our Sunday best, but us in playclothes, hot from summer fun, lined up or bunched together for one or two shots of us.  Didn't matter if someone had their eyes closed or someone else was picking their nose--it was recorded--life at that moment in time--no reshots--or do overs.  But how grateful I am for those photos that connect me to my childhood and those I loved.  And it was a sweet time that we spent with Dan and Raelene, talking about those things and our own memories of our grandmother we share.

One example:  My mom, Grandma Owen, Aunt Lois holding Lura
Marilois, my brother-Todd, me, Renee, Becky
sitting:  Margaret  (other than Todd and I--these all belong to Aunt Lois)

Family Discovery Day 2020 at ROOTSTECH

Mid-January, I ordered 3 tickets to RootsTech Family Discovery Day which is a Saturday event associated with RootsTech for members of the Church and their families.  Gary and Jena had bowling that day, but I decided to order tickets for them just in case something happened with bowling and they were free to join me.  That didn't happen, but instead I had a ticket for my sister, Valerie, who came in town to spend some time with our dad.  Lucky me--she stayed with me for the weekend and then spent the following week with our dad.

It was awesome to spend time with her--both in conversation and at the Family Discovery Day.  We both like family history, although Valerie has been engaged in the work of it for a very long time.  I am a more recent participant. 





Elder and Sister Stevenson

Saturday morning started off with Elder Gary and Lesa Stevenson as they shared a bit about their family history and how the sharing of family stories connects us to each other and to our faith.  Then Emmitt Smith, formerly of the Dallas Cowboys, told his story of family and family history connections.  He told about watching a football game with his dad and some of his dad's friends when the Dallas Cowboys were playing the New Orleans Saints when he was seven years old.  (I think this was a championship game) He turned to his dad and told him that he was going to play football for the Dallas Cowboys and win a Super Bowl ring.  He said that his dad and friends all laughed in that fun way people do when kids say stuff like that, but in his heart, he knew it was true.  And he got 3 Super Bowl rings and so many records.  He had never even played football at that point in his life.  He shared key things that coaches and his parents taught him that lead to his success--hard work, setting goals.  It was very interesting!  We all have these types of stories which are a part of who we are and what we are becoming!  Which is why we should write those important stories down and honor those who were important to us---even if we never win the Super Bowl or achieve extraordinary things---living ordinary lives which touch others for good and honor our Heavenly Parents and Jesus Christ!  That is all that really matters.   

As we were wandering through the Expo Hall, I randomly noticed the name on someone's badge as they passed in the opposite direction-  "Kent Parsons."  I mentioned to my sister how odd that someone would have the same name as someone from our ward in Amarillo, Texas.  She turned to look and said, "That is Kent Parsons."  We went back and it was our friend.  He is my age and our parents were very close friends.  My dad and his dad served together many years in a Bishopric.  Kent now lives in New Mexico and regularly attends RootsTech.  It was fun to have a quick conversation.  (Valerie was able to recognize him quickly because she is Facebook friends with his younger sister who had recently posted a family photo of her and her siblings.)  Fun times.



Random fact:  His other younger sister, Edith, was the first and really only person with Down syndrome that I met in my growing up years.  Their family was one of the role models that I clung to when we began our own journey with Down syndrome years ago.

So tell a story, write a story, share a photo---you (and I) are the link between our ancestors and our descendants!  There are easy ways all around to do it!  Just do it!