Sunday, August 28, 2022

Grandkids

Because it is my blog, I can post cute pictures of grandkids whenever I wanted.

This round of pictures came at my request so that I could print pictures to give to my dad and to Ben.

Niki (3rd), Ava, Cooper (K)

Alex, Zander (K), Carter, Ezri, Liam (2nd)

Scarlett (3rd), James (K)
All of the school aged kids are excited for school, Scarlett and James have been going for a few weeks, Liam started last week with Zander starting tomorrow, Niki starts in 3 days with Cooper following the next week.  It sure is hard for those kindergarteners to have to wait to start school so that testing can be done, but they all will survive.


Update on Dad/Grandpa

My dad moved to the Rocky Mountain Care Cottage on Vine Street in Murray last Thursday.  Today Rick and Linda got to spend some time with him and took these pictures.  I thought it would be nice for my dad to have pictures of some of the people who came to visit him.

This is Rick and Linda with David and Dawn Dobson  (Karla's son and daughter in law)
Rick and Linda with Dad
The Dobsons
Dad and Karla
Life's precious moments......
 

Music And The Spoken Word...AND ..The Piano Guys!

This morning, we headed over to the Conference Center to watch Music and the Spoken Word.  It was a special occasion because first--- THE PIANO GUYS were performing with the Choir. It was a beautiful collection of music praising God and the Savior.  I highly recommend watching it on their website.

You can see Jon Schmidt on the piano and Steven Sharp Nelson on the cello


 The Second thing that made it special was we were joined by.....

my brother, Rick and my sister-in-law, Linda.  They were in town for a wedding on Linda's side of the family and came and spent the morning with us.  The concert was a fun bonus for them as well.  They went to Church and then went and spent the afternoon with my dad who is now at a skilled nursing center in Murray, not far from his home.

And then after the broadcast, the audience got invited to watch as the choir and orchestra performed the Hallelujah chorus a few times which was taped for use in an upcoming video with the Piano Guys (who performed in the filming as well.) Look for that in the future and know--we were there.

THEN as if that wasn't enough, they dismissed the audience but then said, "Wait--we forgot that Jon Schmidt and Richard Elliot (the Tabernacle choir organist)  are going to perform a duet with piano and organ of  "Waterfall."  This was one of the Jon Schmidt pieces that Tosha learned as a teenager.  It was fun to hear it in the Conference Center as two masters played their instruments in this setting. It was a perfect end to the morning of music.

What a perfect start on a Sabbath day.

More Views of Temple Square Under Construction

Monday morning views from the Roundhouse--one of the ways to exit the COB parking lot which--if rumors are true--will be taken out as part of the renovations of Temple Square.

Looking south into the Plaza area

The Roundhouse is behind the Relief Society Building and to the west of the Church Office Building.  It contains stairs and elevators to get to the parking levels below.  It is not open to the public.
Of course, flowers.....

Outside view of the Roundhouse---
In some places the scaffolding has been removed from part of the temple--it is nice to see stone again.

This is where we serve--the Church History Library as I am waiting to cross the street...

Hope you enjoyed your morning walk around a bit of Temple Square-under construction.

Mission Homecoming

A selfie as we got to the chapel a little earlier than we needed to---
Last Sunday, we headed early up to Fruit Heights to hear our friends, Laurie and Mike Hoer, speak about their mission in Sudan-Egypt as humanitarian missionaries.  I had met Laurie for dinner last week so had caught up with family stuff and we talked some about their mission experiences, but it was great to hear their remarks about their services.  One phrase they both used is that these people are not "the least" but they are the people with the least that we are called to serve.  They had many amazing experiences in seeking and providing funding for projects which would make the difference in people's lives.

It makes me proud to belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who understands the call to serve all of God's children....and certainly proud to be friends with Laurie and Mike--what faithful disciples are they!  Such as we have found our way to serve with our talents and abilities, Laurie and Mike are willing to share theirs!  God makes use of all who have a willing heart and mind.

So, I will say it again, senior missions are amazing--they can be hard and demanding--but such an amazing moment in time to serve where you are called.



 

Friday Fun--August 19th

Friday morning, we headed to the Bountiful Temple for our Zone Temple Session.


The views to the west are amazing, especially if you are a fan of the Great Salt Lake and Antelope Island.....
Beautiful flowers all around....
Another look to the west through the archways
I caught some photos of missionaries as they came out of the temple after the session...
Sister Dixon with Sister Cisneros
and then me with Sister Cisneros


Sister Coley, the newest missionary in our zone

Sister Forman and Sister Elder



A stack of bags while pictures are being taken....


Jena with the Elders

We then headed to Plates and Palates, a small restaurant in Bountiful, recommended by the Parkers.
It was fun to spend time together in conversation after a busy work week.

We got home in time to change clothes, maybe answer some phone calls and emails and then headed out for the next mission activity of the day---

Mission Branch Party at the Holmes' home!

They have a beautiful house in Farmington and Sister Holmes had thought it was a great idea to invite the Mission Branch up (which is the full-time missionaries) to their house while they still have rental tables and chairs from their back yard reception for their son two days earlier (and he actually had gotten married the day before this party.)  It might have used the tables and chairs effectively, but I think she was ready for a very long nap when it was all over.  I didn't get any pictures of our missionaries from the event.

When we first walked in, they asked us to put some fact about ourselves that others didn't know (since we all already had name tags. :) ).  I put that we had lived in Hong Kong; Gary said that he scuba dived--lots of missionaries had also scuba dived so that led to lots of conversations.  Without any help from us, Jena came up with her own "I act the theatre."  People had fun talking to her about plays that she liked and ones that she had been in.  For tonight, "Guys and Dolls" was her favorite play.
We had some rain at the beginning, but President Holmes was determined--rain or shine!

Their backyard is big and very beautiful---
and included a small putting green which we all tried out.


Dinner started and some used umbrellas while they ate, but by the time we got our food the rain had stopped and the weather was great for the rest of the evening.
We did the "Find a Relative" on the Family Search app and Gary was connected to a 2nd cousin and in this case, they actually both knew their shared cousin-- Twilla Bird (and others in her family).  It was fun learning about some new missionaries who we didn't know.

It was a good evening and an opportunity to socialize with more of these great missionaries in our mission.  Thanks to President and Sister Holmes for making it possible and sharing their home with all of us.


 

Monday, August 22, 2022

Medical (Mortal) Saga Continues

Some moments there are no pictures for--but they are as real as sunsets and clouds and much more important than those in the eternities (well, clouds and sunsets play their parts in the whole world as a system and these are actually pictures of clouds in this post--- but you get the point)-- our relationships with each other--in our families and in our friendships are the most important things and sometimes it changes plans on a day or in a week.

Dad: It started first last Thursday with a text and then a phone call with Karla, my dad's wife, telling me that my dad was in the hospital.  He had had a fall and they decided that he needed to remain in the hospital for observation although his original tests had come back fine--no concussion or anything from the fall.  I had already made plans to visit with Dad that evening with my sister, Valerie who was in town for BYU Education Week.  Since dad was doing fine, I decided to wait to tell her and my other siblings until later that day so that Valerie could enjoy her day of classes and my other siblings could get home from work, etc.  Then Thursday evening, we were able to visit with him at the hospital for a couple of hours.

Ben:  I already had a medical appointment with Ben that afternoon with his gastroenterologist in Provo so we did that first.  His doctor had decided that there was no evidence that Ben had any significant blockage or constipation over the past 2 months and that the diarrhea was "primary" not as a result of constipation.  So, he took Ben off several medications and is hoping to change another one to help his bowels get more into balance/  He is still very much at risk for constipation due to the antipsychotics and other medications he is taking so it will always be a balancing act between the two.  Unfortunately, there was other bad news.  His liver enzymes especially ammonia are off again. As a result, the doctor has ordered a different scan of the liver which will be done at the end of September. 

In addition, he has gained 7 lbs in the past five weeks.  He continues to struggle with his slurred speech but it is improving.  It is likely due to the medication they added to reduce anxiety which has allowed him to go outside.  It is being reduced but likely will have to be stopped.  Ben is discouraged since he felt that medication had been very useful for him.  Ben can't seem to catch a break with medication.

Liam: While we were at the mission branch social on Friday night (more on that in a different post), I got a text from Jessica saying they were heading to Primary's with Liam.  He had been having "retractions" as he was breathing for about 3 days but didn't have any other signs of being sick.  Usually, it is caused by pneumonia or colds.  They reached out to his doctor on Friday and she responded by asking them to take him to the ER at Primary's.  Due to the history in the family of Chiari Malformation, there was the tiniest chance that he might be having symptoms of that.  Meanwhile.....

Elessia:  Elessia had had some blood work done as part of an overall health checkup and Friday afternoon, her doctor's office had called and said that her blood work was not good and showed some possible heart issues and she needed to be checked at an ER as well.  So now, Jessica had two family members to take to an ER.  She dropped Elessia off at the University of Utah Hospital ER and then went just down the hill to Primary's with Liam.  Elessia's niece who is a BYU student came up to watch the other kids.

When I got the message, I checked in with Jessica and Liam said he wanted me to come and stay with him and Jessica.  So, after dropping off Sister Cisneros and Gary and Jena, I headed to Primary's about 8:30 pm and hung out while they were running tests and making decisions.  Good news about him--he does not have Chiari.  His lungs were clear.  They decided that he was constipated which was causing his stomach to swell and push against his diaphragm and that was irritating his lungs. About midnight, he headed home with me while Jessica joined Elessia at U of U ER where there was a 4 hour wait to even be checked into a room.

After having an EKG and more blood tests, Elessia was cleared to leave the ER about 3:00 am. Everything looked back to normal and she needs to follow up with her doctor to make sure things stay that way.

So after all of that--good news for both of them.  And I guess, better safe than sorry!!  We are happy that they both are fine.

Liam thought it was fun to spend the night, but we had to leave early in the morning to take him home so that we could get the other things done that needed to be done.  We are putting lots of miles on our car these days.

Liam sleeping on our couch Saturday morning
Some time in the night he had put his glasses on.

Dad (con't):  On Friday, my dad was diagnosed with pneumonia and they also found fluid in the lining of the lungs.  These are common symptoms with congestive heart failure so not entirely unexpected although he didn't have a fever or other signs of infection which come with pneumonia. Over the weekend, I have spent time visiting with Dad and with Karla and Valerie.  We had the chance to meet the doctor and listen as he talked about options going forward.  He is suggesting talking to a palliative care team which was to happen today (Monday) but didn't for some reason.  Dad and Karla certainly don't want to spend their lives going back and forth to the hospital.

Dad is getting some strength back as medications seems to be reducing the fluid buildup in the lungs.  He is hoping to go home in a few days.  Hopefully, the right type of supports can be put together--whatever that looks like.

Going to visit Dad on Sunday--the clouds behind the hospital were stunning.  (He is on the 7th floor of the tall building on the left--IHC on 53rd Street in Murray, Utah.

I liked them so much that I slipped into the cafeteria to take some pictures out the windows there to the east.  They actually call the dining area "Windows on the Wasatch" so a perfect picture taking spot for clouds over the mountains.



A great reminder that life goes on even with these unexpected things and around most corners could be something beautiful if we take a moment and look!

Thanks, clouds, I needed that!