Sunday, December 22, 2019

MORTAL STUFF AND MEMORIES

Moving every 4-6 years served a good purpose in causing us to look at our stuff and getting rid of it from time to time.  Now we have lived in the same place for 21 years and there is a lot of stuff to sort through and get rid of as we prepare to redo the basement.

These, however, have made ALL of those moves with us (well, maybe we stored them in the States when we were in Hong Kong, but they made all of the rest of them with us).  These are the yearbooks from high school and some junior high for Gary and I.
The Columbian was mine.  I attended my sophomore year at Columbia High School in Richland, Washington.  I loved that school.  It was the only high school in the town at that time and we were all raised to be Columbian Bombers  (I know.  Weird mascot!  Related to the history of the town and nuclear power.)  Anyway, that was our goal.  Unfortunately for me (and tragic for my younger brothers and sisters who never got to attend there), we moved to Amarillo, Texas where I graduated from another high school--a story for another day.

This particular year book then has been very important to me.  It contains so many memories and faces of people that were important to me.
Memories of friends and classmates and the things that we shared together.
David Ord, who signed here, recently passed away.
A page--can you find my 15 year old self???
And with those photos, I have ditched the yearbooks.

This cute thing was made for me by Julie Copfer.  I love it and it has been on a kitchen shelf for years and then moved down to the shelf in my office/family history/exercise room---but in my future plan for the room, I won't have the same spot for it.  Whenever I see it, it reminds me of our friendship, the conversations we have had, the memories of serving together in Primary, the BBQ lunch in the Texas countryside.....and so many more.  How can I let it go, but how can I keep it as well?  These are hard questions.
A bag of Cub Scout slides all made by Cindy Anderson with some help occasionally by the Cub Scouts. With the Church ending their connections with the Boys Scouts, I won't be needing a neckerchief slide again, but the memories are full as I look at them....however, I am sure that my children don't have the same memories and don't need the task of tossing them away when I die.  A picture will have to do.

Memories are such powerful things and it is good from time to time to remember--the fun of the past, the hard times, the amazing people our lives have intertwined with----but it is only stuff.  The important things are there--in our memories, our hearts and our minds!!!  And while I am sure that I have forgotten more than I remember, I know that is what will go with me when I move on out of mortal life--and none of the important things will be forgotten then!

Who knew that you can get tearful looking at stuff all day???





SNOW

These were taken on an early morning walk.  If you are not familiar with snow, these are snow clouds--in every directions--right when I didn't want snow.


It was also very cold, even with several layers on.
It started sleeting a bit during my walk, but it was the next day or so that we woke up to find
a winter wonderland (or as I called it--the Thanksgiving Trip wrecker!)
 I admit that it is beautiful when it first falls ----
and it makes the dogs SO excited...

And when I am warm inside, it looks so peaceful and pretty out the windows....
and brings a calmness to the world (especially when I don't have to commute to Salt Lake in it.)
However, these storms came as promised during Thanksgiving week, so, as Gary and I had worked out, snow meant no trip to Oro Valley for Thanksgiving.  Instead, Gary was out snowplowing and I worked in de-junking and boxing up stuff in our basement, getting ready for painting, new carpets, etc.
And after eating Thanksgiving leftovers for over a week, we had a chicken dinner on Thanksgiving with just Gary, Ben, Jena and I.  Jessica and family came on the Sunday afterwards and had another Thanksgiving dinner with us (Turkey casserole and the rest of the normal stuff). So it wasn't as planned, but it worked!  Happy Thanksgiving!  So grateful for our many blessings!

Saturday Night Grandma Fun

On a Saturday night, I spent the evening with Liam, Zander, Carter, and Alex while Jessica and Elessia headed out to have some fun.  I actually think that I only got three of the four of them to bed around bedtime, but Carter was holding out.  But before bedtime, we had some fun together--

Cutest toy on the shelf--Alex
Carter
Liam and Zander were trying to do a head stand together using the crib for support--a bit later, Alex was trying to do it, but since she was barely walking at this point, she mostly was just falling over as she tried to put her head on the ground.  Carter just thinks her brothers are silly, but Alex often thinks she can do whatever they are doing.
Sweet grandma moments!

Only in Provo!

After the concert, we picked up Emily's mom, Vicki, at the train station where she parks a car to use on Wonderwood days.  She takes the train from Layton down to Provo on Tuesdays and Thursdays.  As we were picking her up, I saw this sign in front of some parking stalls---

Do you have "kiss and ride" signs at your train stations???