Sunday, August 24, 2025

Surgery Eve.....

That day when you try to get everything cleaned, the laundry done, and groceries in the shelves because you know that you won't being doing that stuff much for a few weeks. That was our Wednesday, August 13th...I actually did the food things on Tuesday and we did want to fit one more temple visit before I was down so that was set for Wednesday......


So we headed to the temple to do sealings in the morning which is always a special treat.  When we came outside, this car was parked next to ours....I had to get photos for the Hello Kitty fans in the family--





That is a serious commitment to a brand--not what I would expect to see...anywhere!  Someone loves Hello Kitty!


Gary was serving in the temple on Wednesday in the late shift, so we invited Wayne Volk to come over in the afternoon along with his wife, Kaye, so that he and Gary could give me another blessing for this specific surgery.  I was actually more nervous about this surgery for some reason.  Probably due in part to the fact that unexpected things have been popping up lately and I was a bit "gun shy" as they say.  And the fact that I haven't had a surgery where they actually "cut into me" and planned hospital stay since 1992 when I had a hysterectomy.  I was only 37 then and I am now 70....a big difference! And the whole idea of a "bypass surgery" even when it is the leg artery and not a heart---which would be so much more scary for sure.  We had such a good visit with the Volks.  It was one of those moments when you knew it was right to be sharing this time and conversation with them and for them to be a part of this blessing.  I don't remember much about the blessing although the doctor and his skills being enhanced was mentioned, but I do remember feeling comforted and that was the desire of my heart.  I didn't want to feel nervous about something I needed to have done.  

August 13th is a special day because it is Jena's friend, Emily Ehlen's birthday. So after we got the house cleaned and after the blessing, we stopped off at her house for Jena to drop off a card and a gift for her.  It was fun because one of their young adult volunteers with Wonderwood was visiting from Florida so Jena got to see her and meet her new baby.  Old friends are some of the best blessings in life----


I had finished all of the household tasks that I thought I wanted done before my surgery, except for mopping my wood floors.  I had decided to wait until the evening to finish that final task. Then about 7:30 Jessica called and asked if they could all spend the night.  Their power had been out for a few hours by then due to a fire north of them about 5 miles--no power means no AC which isn't fun in the August summer in Utah. Of course, we were happy to have them come.  We got a bed put together downstairs for the grownups and put sleeping bags on the family room floor for the grandkids.  And I got one last unexpected but happy grandchildren fix before my surgery----Jessica shared this photo--

The only thing better than reading to 5 grandchildren is reading to 10 of them!!! Love them so much! My kitchen floor didn't (and still hasn't) gotten mopped, but there are way more important things than a mopped floor.  Reading to grandchildren is one of those things.  :)

We had to leave about 6:30 in the morning to make it to our appointment at McKay Dee so we didn't see them in the morning, but it worked out that they spent some time with Jena until about noon which was great for us because we don't like her hanging out all day alone.  So it was a win win and their power was on when they got home.

And that is how the day before surgery went.  It was pretty perfect.

Jena at RISE

Tuesday, August 12, Jena started attending RISE a day program for people with disabilities.  I just felt like she needs more interactions and opportunities in life and we can't wait until she finds a job to start framing out the rest of her life.  She was so excited.  She didn't want me to forget to do the "First Day" photos to share with her siblings.

She came home happy and excited to go again next week so a good start.

Is it really what I want?  Not really, but feels like the best of our current options with good flexibility when she is still looking for a job. Right now she is going once a week on Tuesdays except for the upcoming week when she will go twice so she can participate in their cooking activity on Thursday.

Elder Jensen's Mission Homecoming

 On Sunday, August 10th, we headed up to Burley, Idaho, to welcome Elder Amos Jensen home from his mission in Arkansas.  He spent the first three transfers or so in Ft. Smith and we loved being there to watch him change from a new missionary to a powerful one.  It was great to be there and to spend time also with his family.  Having children who were adopted connected us immediately with his parents.

An unexpected bonus was spending time with some of our other young missionaries as well--
Elder Smith, Elder Miller, Elder Jensen and Elder Rojos.
We saw the Burley Temple on our drive to Elder Jensen's home after his awesome talk in Church. So we went back to get pictures..  They will have their open house and dedication this fall.

I texted Sister Collins our group photo from Elder Jensen's house and she sent me two photos of the open house they attended on that same Sunday.  20 missionaries had come home that week from the Arkansas Bentonville Mission and many spoke the same Sunday.
The Collins with more young missionaries we love

And we just heard last night that another set of missionaries from the ABM are getting married--Elder Keller who served with us many transfers is marrying Sister Oaklee Martinez who we didn't know--fun stuff.

It was a fun Sunday to renew connections and remember the joy of missionary service.


Sunday, August 10, 2025

Finally, A Temple Visit...

morning walks at Jensen Pond, a trip to Lagoon, and unpacking boxes of toys in the downstairs game room.  Signs of "normal" life around here. It was so nice to feel well enough to do some regular things.  It felt so great even with a leg which doesn't like to walk much.


Lagoon

Their music show

Gary and Jena did Rattlesnake Rapids





Gary and Jena have gone to Lagoon a few times this year, but this was my first time.  I hope to be able to make it back for Frightmares in the fall.

I started walking at Jensen Pond last Thursday--and on Saturday I was able to walk about 40 minutes which felt like a major accomplishment.  

The cattails were in "bloom" along the path.  I love cattails.  In some ponds down the hill from where I grew up there were always lots of them in the fall.  In 9th grade I did a project about them for my Environmental Science class which included the different ways local people used them historical.  I love that they are included in the Syracuse Temple as part of the design.

They aren't the prettiest plant, but I still love them.  They remind me of Richland and also Syracuse!

And finally un packing some toys in the basement--



Nice to accomplish something especially when I know that I will be back in a recovery mode after Thursday.  Goal this week:  Clean the house!